The birthday paradox ruined my party

Twenty-three people in a room and two of them share a cake day. I did the math out loud. Never do the math out loud.

Twenty-three people in a room and the odds of a shared birthday cross fifty percent. I explained this at my own party, out loud, with a whiteboard. Attendance next year is projected lower.

P(shared) = 1 - 365!/(365^23 · 342!) ≈ 0.507

The paradox is not that the number is 23. The paradox is thinking anyone wants to hear about it near a cake.